assalamualaikum...  *sorry for late first post in 2015*

what people said about love? when the different become one. and people assuming if the difference is about person's habitual, people mindset, culture, or job. but what if the difference is religion? can you describe it? in the country with large scale of citizen and difference social culture and religion like Indonesia, it's not be hard thing to conceiving each other. but this is just happen in social intercourse. I see a lot egoism disposition that appears and have purpose just want to domination culture, example war of inter-ethnic groups or a fight for a land that will form to be a prayers place. I don't know why we living too hard if the reason we life just want to kill or makes other disappear. but that's the reality in this country. the country's tagline "bhinneka tunggal ika" not really work when the situation like this.
now, I wanna back to the topic about what the difference within love and the hardest thing that may happen about it. yeah, the hardest thing like I said will happen if you falling in love with someone who came from another cultural or religion. the first time you think it's gonna be okay and it will not affect your future. who said that? okay, let me said if you finally know if she/he completed your life so why we towed to marriage? so, the problem begin to occurred. marriage isn't only a agenda within bride and groom, but including both family. when the opinions from them about what to do in life after marriage. the older giving share and the younger take it. when we find our soulmate from other culture, maybe the polemic not pretty hard compare with we find our soulmate from other religion. based on reality, it doesn't make the relationship ended with marriage.
until I wrote and publish this post I still don't know how to solve this problem if happen in my friend, so if you have a other opinions, I would be great to know.
why I wrote down this? because this-thing that I as the moslem woman always to remember to find my ideal man in the same path sometime feel confused if I find an ideal man (with kindness heart, family lover or everything else) and good prayer... but he's good prayer in different path.
and the only-one's way is I have to courage my self to walk away and kill this bad-feeling.